I have been seperated for about 7 years, although my husband and I have had a friendship going part of the time. My husband decided that he wanted to go to Las Vegas with a woman and that really hurt me alot. I went into his email and got the womans name and a few days before he went I dialed her number but did not block mine hoping she would call me back and I could ask her why she was dating a married man. Instead that night my husband called me from work asking me why I called two other women plus the one he was going to las vegas with. He named her last. He claimed I called 3 other women but these were names supposedly on his email. I told him I did not. Now he is angry, he does not think he did anything wrong. He refuses to see that he is wrong and what he is doing is wrong. I am furious with him. I think he lost his mind. Actually I think he named the other 2 out of guilt and now he will not speak to me because he knows I know he is a dog. Am I wrong about this?

You may think that you are separated and trying to patch things to get back together. He may view things as he’s single because he’s in the process of getting a divorce. You need to decide as a couple what the final outcome is going to be. It sounds like he’s already decided that he wants to be single. As much as that may hurt you, you did decide to separate for a reason. Seek guidance from a life coach or councelor so that you can feel better emotionally as soon as possible. You need to worry about your well being now, not his. Take care.